Prep up the gourd: Rinse ivy gourd under running water and pat dry with a clean cloth. Chop off both the ends and discard. Either slice them to thin round slices or lengthwise to long slices. Or Alternately add to a food processor and pulse a few times (do not process). Check pics in the post.
Make vepudu karam: (Omit to use coconut.) Dry roast red chili, urad dal and chana dal until golden & aromatic. Add cumin, coconut, sesame seeds and garlic. When the sesame begin to splutter, remove to a plate and cool completely. Powder this finely. Set aside. Use this only as needed and store the rest for later use.
Temper: Heat a pan with oil. Add mustard, cumin, urad dal, chana dal, garlic, red chili and curry leaves. When the lentils turn golden, add hing.
Make the stir fry: Add chopped dondakaya, salt and turmeric. Stir fry on a medium high heat for 3 minutes. Cover and cook on a low flame until the gourd is tender, to your liking. Keep stirring in between.
Stir in the coconut or the vepudu karam & saute for 2 mins until aromatic. Add the red chili powder and roasted peanuts and stir fry for another 2 mins.
Serve dondakaya fry with hot rice and ghee. It goes well as a side with rice-rasam or rice-sambar.